Let me keep it short and sweet... or not, we'll see...
So, we've all been through this if you haven't then I strongly suggest you recheck your growth. We've all had those relationships that have broken down whether it be a friendship or 'relationship' type of relationship. It's something that you can't control but if they were really meant to be in your life then one way or another you will find yourselves together again.
There's a saying that God brings people into your life for a reason and that reason may be the season you're in. When that's done you may find yourself drifting apart or loosing what you had in common, it's not a problem it really just means that you're growing. You're growing in nature, maturity, character and generally just preparing for the next stage of life.
For me I have lots of friends from high school, sixth form and first year in university that are currently not in my immediate life. I mean I have them all on my social media and we may occasionally exchange a quick 'hey', a like or a comment but it definitely isn't how we started off. I'm not sad about it because when they were in my life we were great friends and made great memories. They taught me a lot about myself & life and for that I'm grateful but sometimes you've just got to let go of the past and move into your future wholeheartedly. Make room for the people in your now, in your new season. You never know, you may just end up meeting again in the future but you also need to give THEM time to grow...
I can genuinely say there are some people who I lost touch with before and we naturally found each other again. Don't struggle to hold onto something that's not meant for you, it's a waste of time and energy. Trust the God 'has your back' and He has placed the right people in your life in each moment to hold you down and turn down that crazy (leeuul)
If you find that you're straining yourself, having to step on eggshells or tip toeing around in your relationship well then mate, make that DOUBLE TAKE!
Peace-LOVE & all things sugary
MbyM
So true Metruth! I've been going through a lot of similar things to what you're talking about and what I've learned is that although change and growth are a good thing it can be really quite sad at times especially when people that were once there in your life, aren't anymore. But everything has it's time & season. God has a reason for everything he does, and something better and more marvellous is always waiting right around the corner! :)
ReplyDeleteAwwhh love that Em! It's a bitter sweet topic but yeah He definitely always has something bigger and better for us. Keep going Hun, can't wait to see what's in store for you in your next season 😊
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